From the list above, choose one stressor that you, or someone you know, experienced as a child. Share how you, or that person, coped with and/or compensated for that stressor (including any resources used or any support obtained).
As a child my husband experienced poverty growing up in New York. Unfortunately his parents were both addicted to a variety of drugs so his aunt raised him and his three younger siblings. She was able to provide them with a warm home, hot meal and clean clothes but it was very difficult to adequately provide for seven children; three were her own. My husband was able to cope with this by using organized sports as an outlet; he excelled in basketball and football. His aunt did not support his high school athletic career; however he had a teacher and his best friends’ parents that supported him in everything he did. I am proud to say that my husband graduated from college and also has a masters degree, he is currently studing to take the LSAT to enter law school next year. As for his sibilings, his brother is currently a college student at a four year university; his sister is a medic in the army; his baby sister graduates from high school in about two weeks and will be attending a local university as a freshman this fall. This goes to show that you do not have to be a product of your environment, they all faced challenges as children but they channeled their energy towards positive factors.
Choose a region or country in the world that you would like to know more about and/or for which you have a special affinity. Find out, and describe, the kind of stressor(s) that impact the development of children in that region/country and what is being done to minimize the harm.
The country I chose was Japan because I do not know too much about the stressors they may face day-to-day. This country are very driven by education, parents are obsessed with creating a child that is academically superior. Adults have a very high expectation for their children to receive high grades, which causes children to be very competitive towards one another. This competitiveness and conflicting expectations for modern children to be the best in school but also serve the traditional purposes of the group, confuses children and causes frustration. This contributes to other social problems such as bullying and truancy (Crystal, 1994). In the mid 1980’s a rash of suicides broke out amongst school-aged children due to bullying.
Currently there is not anything being done to minimize this problem; however children fear that they will not meet their expected expectation so they give up on school and seclude themselves from family and maybe some friends. Both bullying and truancy are currently serious problems in Japan.
References:
Crystal, David S. 1994. "Concept of Deviance in Children and Adolescents: The Case of Japan." Deviant Behavior: An Interdisciplinary Journal 15:241-266. Jiro, Saito. 1999. "Grownups Should Listen to the Kids." Japan Quarterly 46(April-June):83-88.
Shotaro, Takahashi. 1999. "Chaos in Elementary Classrooms." Japan Quarterly 46(April-June):78-82.